If you would like, you can share your challenge for the class here. It can be helpful to share your goal/challenge/intention with others, because it can make it more real and powerful.
If you do want feedback/advice, make it clear so others know you are asking for it; if you don't, say that, too, so others honor that.
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My challenge for the course is: co-parenting a toddler peacefully, internationally with my ex. My 19-month-old son's dad has moved back to Chandigarh, India and we (mom and son) are here in California.
ReplyDeleteWhat I don't yet understand: what's my ex's family's perspective/feelings about custody and visitation? What cultural aspects am I not seeing or fully appreciating? I tend to see the glass as half full... what dangers and opportunities are there is taking this stance towards my challenge. I'd appreciate any feedback or advice about my challenge. Thanks in advance!
Soooo.... I've been CHALLENGED to meditate on what my role was/has been in the demise of our marriage. This week, I accept the challenge to get clarity around my role and responsibility in how I react to/interact with my ex. Even though we chose to go our separte ways, I want to learn from this failure and grow as a person. Sometimes, in my optimism, I fail to acknowledge the real, deep, (secret) fears. In US culture, we rarely get opportunities to experience what we did tonight in the sharing our fears exercise in the business setting.
ReplyDeleteSome actions to report: I took an interest-based negotiation workshop that will help me prepare, AND more importantly facilitate my focus on the relationship with my son's father. Also this week's live-with, seeing with heart, puts things in alignment.
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